Betrayal Trauma Help, Giving Your Pain a Voice
Heal from damage of TRUST, SAFETY & SECURITY caused by your partner's Pornography use Get access to the courseFree offer
Is your husband struggling with pornography?
Are you experiencing the pain of damaged trust, safety, and security in your relationship?
This course is a place of compassion for what you’re going through…
Easy to follow plan a-b-c to reclaim your sanity back
Holistic Healing methods that improves your entire life
Meet your Coach
Hey, I’m Helena! Since 2018, I have had the privilege of coaching women that have had their relationships damaged by their partner’s use of pornography. My goal is to help you navigate your new painful reality and help you give your pain a voice. I am all about holistic healing and transformation that comes by combining faith and science. This approach is built from my own experiences and past story of toxic relationships, pornography addiction, betrayal trauma, sexual abuse, and body image issues. I remember feeling exhausted from white-knuckling it all on my own and hiding behind a mask because I didn’t know who to talk to. This drove me to create the Betrayal Trauma Online Self Guided Program to help women have a place of trusted and proven guidance, to know that they are not alone.
WHAT TO EXPECT
Betrayal Trauma Healing
Online Program Content
Your STORY holds so many answers, that’s why you will be Giving your Pain a Voice through Story Healing, much like David in the book of Psalms
1. Our Natural Response
The what and why behind betrayal trauma/ The natural response of your emotions/ Interview of my husband to bring hope and perspective
2. Story Healing
The Process and Normality of Grieving/ Learn To Give Your Pain a Voice Through Your Story Writing,
3. Caring For Yourself
How to Renew Your Mind (Romans 12:2)/ Body Image/ How to Confront Distress and Anxiety
4. Trauma Effects
The Effects That Trauma Has On You and and Your Partner /The Meaning Behind Trust/ How to Find and Create Safety
5. The Lie Behind Control
The deception of control/ unhealthy and healthy anger cycles/ the question of do we need to forgive and how to actually forgive
6. Boundaries and Plan
Set Healthy Boundaries And have a Balance/ The big picture behind your story with your husband/ Should I stay or leave
And theres even more that I have for you…
This Betrayal Trauma Online Program comes with 2 EXTRA modules
Sex, Intimacy and Women's Health
Develop Your Own Sexual Template
Healthy Expectations, navigating sex
The connection between women’s health and sex
Disclosure Process
Understanding Disclosure
The Before, During and After Dislosure
Helpful tools for navigating the disclosure process
EXTRA MODULE: Sex and Women's Health
Creating a Sexual Template for you and Your husband/ Unpack the things that are in the way of this happening so you can replace lies, fears, etc with truth, love and grace and start thriving
EXTRA MODULE: Disclosure Process
What a Full Disclosure is, why you might want to consider doing one, and the steps of preparation for before, during, and after the session
Client Testimonies
Check out what our clients are saying about working with us
Helena became my Sherpa guide through the grief, anger, anxiety and uncertainty that consumed my life. She led me with great compassion, grace and a smile that gave me hope. Helena did more than help me cope and heal from betrayal, she discipled me. She taught me how to practically renew my mind with God’s word, how to lament, and how to depend on God no matter what my circumstances looked like.
Helena has been one of the greatest blessings in my life! She helped me have compassion for my story and my broken sexuality. My husband and I are now both in a season of recovery and we are stepping into the best and most truest versions of ourselves each and every day. We have tasted what it is like to have a porn-free marriage, and it’s been too sweet to go back to the bondage of porn
Woman’s Healing Story
Are you Ready To Get The Right Support?
Beneath The Skin: Betrayal Trauma Online Program To Give Your Pain A Voice
Compassionate and truly helpful support
Thousands of hours of work boiled down into one place
Holistic Healing methods that improves your entire life
$299
$49/ 1-time
CAD
BENEATH THE SKIN: Self Guided Betrayal Trauma Program
You will be met with compassion and help to reclaim your sanity back. The healing of trust and security can begin now
Lifetime access
Easy to follow plan a-b-c to reclaim your sanity back
Video teachings, worksheets from an expert who personally understands the impact and the way to the other side
Most Advice Is Unhelpful… It Drives You To White-Knuckle The Problem On Your Own
Most women have a hard time finding the help they need..Are you one of us who in most cases was met with unhelpful resources and advice?
Bad Advice: Focusing on Forgive and Forget
Lack an in-depth understanding and compassion of the state of overwhelming women experience
Unhelpful message of:
“You just need to move on”
Misunderstandings of forgiveness, further pain and, disassociated posture
“Many women try to forgive and forget, move on from betrayal trauma, without real grief, story understanding which than leads them to further white-knuckling and overwhelm”
“I didn’t start truly living and understanding who I am until I realized that I have a story too!”
Big Problem: Surface Issues & Neglecting The Deeper Story
Suggestion like “If you would wear suggestive clothing, have more sex, just read your Bible more and be less emotional” Focus on the surface “problems”
When compassion is absent, so is healing…
Disregard of the fact that you have a sexual story too..
I am here for you, to guide you through this program
I am committed to bringing you the best of what I have learned on this journey of recovering from the effects of my husbands pornography addiction in our relationship and healing from betrayal trauma
Holistic Healing
God is the creator of our bodies, minds and spirits. This means they ALL matter and all work together
What Works: Holistic Healing
The focus of this program is to holistically look at what is happening deep down inside you and to help examine your mind, body and spirit as you navigate this difficult time
Experience and find safety again
Find sanity in the midst of insanity
Lifestyle that will impact all areas of your life positively
Deepen your relationship and faith
You have a Story Too!
We have to become compassionate and curious listeners of our stories, thoughts, feelings and deep down beliefs.
What Works: Giving Your Pain a Voice & Renewing Your Mind
We all have a past story of sexuality – some of “purity” and maybe some of a”wild life”…Your personal sexual story connects so much of what you are experiencing today. You must know that your story is longing to be attended by the Perfect Healer that you have full access to.
Learn to renew your mind
Learn about your sexual story
Connect the dots, let the Perfect Healer heal and renew your Core Beliefs
Feel grounded in your faith and renewed beliefs
This is why our clients resonate with this approach from Betrayal Trauma Online Program
More client testimonies
Helena’s mentoring and program has been incredibly helpful in helping me work through my thoughts, feelings, and beliefs, to examine them and check them against the Word of God, and to find security and rest. It has also helped me frame my behaviour and alert me to how I can respond and live despite suffering, instead of being stuck in self-defeating behaviours
$299
$49/ 1-time
CAD
BENEATH THE SKIN: Self Guided Betrayal Trauma Program
You will be met with compassion and help to reclaim your sanity back. The healing of trust and security can begin now
Lifetime access
Easy to follow plan a-b-c to reclaim your sanity back
Video teachings, worksheets from an expert who personally understands the impact and the way to the other side
A note from Helena
When I finally realized that I don’t have to keep white-knuckling this on my own, everything changed. I stopped pretending that my life is perfect, that my husband’s problem is only HIS problem. I realized that I too have a story, my story matters, and that my story needed to be attended to by God. I renewed the deep-seated fears and thoughts I had on a daily basis and working through the deep-seated beliefs from my sexual story. Today I get to experience what it means to be healthy, self aware and purposeful in all life situations. I believe that when women start to realize that they too have a story, offer it compassion and love, they are able to find holistic healing.
Are you ready to give your pain a voice, to go beneath the skin and heal from BETRAYAL TRAUMA and find trust and connection with your husband again?
Its time to find solid ground and stand firm in who you are through Betrayal Trauma Online Program
Understand your story and offer it compassion
Give your pain a voice and renew your mind
Learn from your mistakes and enjoy total well being
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