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Porn Addiction

The 3 Essential Steps to Quitting Porn

Faith + Science Approach For Maximum Impact

Proven 3 Step Method – Curious, Consistent, Confident

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Step By Step Guide On How To Create Your Sexual Template

Learn How To Communicate With Your Partner About Sex

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About Secret Habit's Approach

We know you want to live a life free from pornography. To do that, you need to get to the root of the issue. The problem is getting into the areas that need deep healing is incredibly hard, especially if you go at it alone. This is why we live and teach from our personal experiences of sobriety and freedom. We understand what it takes to truly recover from pornography addiction. That is why everything we do is directed at ensuring you experience lasting freedom. 

Shawn & Helena Bonneteau Erectile Dysfunction Coaches

Freedom Plan

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2. Start your recovery program

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3. Live free from porn addiction

You deserve to live free

Client Success

“Now that I am on the other side, life has never been so vibrant, colourful, fun, meaningful and godly. This mentoring was the best choice I have ever made“

Robinson Adames

School Counsellor

“I no longer yearn for porn or masturbation. I feel completely natural and I feel so free now knowing I’m not hiding anything.”


“There is freedom in understanding why we fall into temptation.  Every aspect of my life is stronger because of Secret Habit.” 

Joe Dipenta

NHL Cup Champion, Business Owner

Meet your Coaches

Shawn Bonneteau has a deep passion for helping men live an abundant life after pornography. With his own 14 year addiction to porn and masturbation, he knows first hand what it is like to struggle. Since 2017, Shawn has been an advocate for holistic healing from things like porn addiction, (porn induced) erectile dysfunction and other sexual struggles. He has coached and mentored men from around the world, spoken to crowds in person and virtually from all over the globe, and has led trainings for leaders wanting to help their organizations deal with the harms of pornography. Shawn lives in Halifax, Nova Scotia, Canada with his wife Helena and their daughter Violet. In his free time, he loves to go for walks, play chess, film his daughter doing new things, rollerblade and go to the beach.”

Shawn Bonneteau

Co-Founder and Lead Coach, Secret Habit Life Coaching

Hey, I’m Helena! Since 2018, I have had the privilege of coaching women that have had their relationships damaged by their partner’s use of pornography. My goal is to help you navigate your new painful reality and help you give your pain a voice. I am all about holistic healing and transformation that comes by combining faith and science. This approach is built from my own experiences and past story of toxic relationships, pornography addiction, betrayal trauma, sexual abuse, and body image issues. I remember feeling exhausted from white-knuckling it all on my own and hiding behind a mask because I didn’t know who to talk to. This drove me to create the Betrayal Trauma Online Self Guided Program to help women have a place of trusted and proven guidance, to know that they are not alone.

Helena Bonneteau

Co-Founder, Coach and Podcast Host, Secret Habit Life Coaching

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