Meet your teacher
Hey, I’m Shawn! I have the privilege of coaching men to freedom from pornography, erectile dysfunction, and other unwanted sexual behaviors. Along the way, I have learned the best and most cutting-edge approaches that really work, and I’m happy to say that my clients can be a testimony to that! All of the work I do is backed by my own 14-year addiction to porn and 8-year struggle with erectile dysfunction… but even more, it’s backed up by my recovery and freedom that has led to a life of sexual integrity, satisfaction and health.
Get ready for a unique and extremely effective approach that creates emotional and sexual safety between you and your partner. The guided videos and worksheets will help pave the road for the two of you to create your very own “sexual template”
1. Setting Goals and Defining Purpose
Define what you want together and why it matters to you
2. Naming what is in the way
Learn how to name what causes you fear, anxiety, pressure, anger, etc.
3. Naming what is true and factual
Truth and facts have the power to dismantle lies and myths. When the truth is spoken, we can receive it, live from it, and begin to thrive on it.
4. What do you like, want and need?
Defining what is healthy to need, like, and want, and begin using these to enhance your sex life is a step in the right direction.
5. Defining Expectations
We all have expectations, but only some serve the greater good. Naming the expectations that are unfair is the pathway to working towards the ones that are fair.
6. Extending Grace
Learning how to love in shortcomings is what alleviates pressure, fear and performance anxiety so you can thrive sexually.
But wait, theres more…
Each video lesson will come with a guided worksheet to help you and your partner have helpful, healthy, and effective conversations along the way.
Set goals and define your purpose together
Clear out whats in the way of you two thriving
Assure each other of what you truly think and believe
Define your God-given and healthy needs, wants and likes
Name healthy and fair expectations to live by together
Extend each other grace in areas of need
Check out what our clients are saying about working with us
I’ve never met someone so transparent and bold as Shawn. I loved all the practical (yet challenging) steps he provided because it helped me grow in self-awareness.
This was genuinely the best choice I have ever made. While some sessions were more difficult and vulnerable than others and the process of breaking free of my addiction was long, it was all very worth it
Overcoming Erectile Dysfunction naturally can feel impossible
Most methods deal with the wrong problem!
Most people have tried everything to get healthy erections to no avail… It can feel frustrating, embarrassing, and hopeless.
Problem 1: Focusing on the penis
Pills, injections, and pumps are not a holistic solution to a thriving sex life.
You rely on expensive treatments to sexually perform and never really feel the satisfaction you’re looking for… you think “there’s gotta be more”
When the core issues are missed through physical treatments, the lingering root issues never get addressed and the problems ensue.
I spent many years of my life thinking that I was a defective man for not being able to get regular and healthy erections…
I always felt a sense of pressure to perform sexually… I always wondered if I was good enough, hard enough, or sexually pleasing to my wife. This created so much pressure that I could not get an erection…
Problem 2: Trying to heal alone
This is an issue that affects you and your partner… healing together is crucial, yet often missed
The thoughts continue to linger… “does she really love me?”; “Does she only feel pleasure if I perform well?” etc…
Creating safety, to be fully known and fully loved gets missed and everything relies on the man to work through his own stuff… This is TOO much pressure for him
How we work:
Because we have experienced the pain of “trying everything” without success, we are committed to bringing you the best, so you can experience hope and healing
A note from your coach and guide:
After struggling with porn induced and psychological erectile dysfunction for 8 years, I finally found a healing approach that worked! Prior to that, I had invested so many hours and tons of dollars to get the help I needed but really, nothing ever worked… I will forever be indebted to 2 people who spoke into my life and helped me work through the deeper issues at hand and have these tough conversations with my wife. This is what lead to my freedom over erectile dysfunction and ultimately, the beginning stages of what we now know as the “sexual template”
Once I began experiencing the freedom I had been searching so long for, I realized that this whole healing journey is about introspection and being on the same page with my wife! Sadly, I also realized that many people were completely unaware of this idea and how to actually do it… So this is what drives us and the work we do with Secret Habit, may it bless you as it has blessed us.
Frequently Asked Questions
Features and objections you want to mention that aren’t outlined in the sections above.
What do I get after I make a purchase?
You will receive full access to the mini-course which you can access anytime, anywhere for life. You will also get free access to updates we make along the way.
What if it doesn’t work for me?
Although we would love to be able to say this will work 100% of the time, the reality is, it’s going to be up to you, your partner, and the commitment to total healing. We see this method working and we believe it’s proven to stand the test of time. I assure you, you will not only have some stuff to do in this course, but you will learn new ways of thinking and acting that will transform the very fabric of your life.
Do you have a money back guarantee?
We stand behind our products, but we also stand firm in our coaching approach. We know that this course is fantastic, but if you take the time to learn, absorb, apply and practice what is in this course and find that it was not at all helpful, please email email@example.com and we will discuss your situation and work to resolve the problem.