Say Goodbye To Porn Addiction
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I can’t stop watching porn… What do I do?
We guide Christian men to freedom from pornography. We do that by providing a complete system with flexible, customizable tools and expert coaching calls to achieve 3 things:
Confident
Re-establish your confidence within you personal relationships and within yourself
Freedom
Maintain sobriety free from the footholds of porn addiction
Healthy
Discover your complete wholeness in the eyes of the Lord
Does it feel impossible to stop watching porn?
Most men have a hard time finding the help they need.
Problem #1 : Neglecting the ROOT issue
Behaviour Modification masks the real reasons of your porn addiction
White knuckling leads men back to the binge-purge cycle
“An ounce of kindness to your story will do more than any amount of willpower ever could” ~ Jay Stringer
“Having someone who has walked the walk is the element missing in most recovery circles”
Problem #2 : Wasting time and money on recovery that doesn’t help
Many Pastors, Church Leaders, Counsellors and Therapists are ill equipped to help you recover from porn addiction
Lost hope that freedom is ever possible
Self condemnation thinking: “if I just tried harder I would be free”
I know how hard it can be but if I can do it so can you
Through my 14 years of porn addiction and 5 years of freedom I am committed to bringing you the best of what I have learned on this recovery journey
How to stop watching porn? Compassion and Curiosity
God is the creator of our bodies, minds and spirits. This means they ALL matter and all work together
Solution #1 :
Compassion and Curiosity
Jesus modeled what it means to show compassion and ask great questions. When we offer these to ourselves and the things that trigger us, we are able to see whats truly driving our addiction
Grace-driven rather than Fear-driven
Pinpoint and handle the real problem
Develop confidence
Invite Jesus into your pain
You have a Story Too!
We have to become compassionate and curious listeners of our stories, thoughts, feelings and deep down beliefs.
Solution #2 :
Work with a Porn Addiction Expert
Following the lead of someone who has found freedom from porn addiction and dedicated their life to offering proven guidance will help you pinpoint your blind spots and guide you from point A to point B
Personal Experience/ Testimony
Focused Expertise
Situational Understanding and Guidance
Biblically grounded recovery system
Meet your Coach
Hey, I’m Shawn! I have had the privilege of coaching men to freedom from pornography since 2018. Along the way, I have learned the best and most cutting-edge approaches that really work, and I’m happy to say that my clients can be a testimony to that! I love connecting the truth of my faith and the power of science for maximum impact. All of the work I do is backed by my own 14-year addiction to porn and even more, my recovery and freedom since 2017.
Matthew’s Testimony of Healing
Freedom Plan:
Freedom begins with the decision to get the help you need
1. JOIN THE COMMUNITY
Safe place for Christian men to heal from porn addiction
2. ENROLL IN COACHING
Choose between 1 on 1 or group coaching with Shawn
3. Live confident, healthy & free
Reach your potential without the bondage of pornography
Can't quit porn alone
Join our free community with a free personal navigator call included or directly enroll in 1 on 1 or group coaching
Resetting the way you think
Develop the necessary mindsets and skills that recovery requires so you can build a sturdy foundation
Understand what is fuelling your present
Pinpoint the deeper drivers behind your addiction so you can tackle the real problem
Connecting the dots to find answers from the past
Uproot painful formative memories so they can be understood, brought to the light, and released
Bringing love and lead to the areas that need maturity
Learn how to bring understanding, compassion, love and leadership to your inner child
Holistic development of your body, mind and spirit
Develop a new belief system, let go of what has entangled you and become free to think clearly and live pure
Live confident, healthy and free
You are equipped to be out in the world, free from pornography
Take A First Step To Porn Addiction Recovery Today
There is more to live for! We want you to be confident, healthy, and free from pornography addiction
Weekly Coaching Calls
Get ready to learn, grow and heal with hands-on coaching from Shawn
(A) Option: 1-on-1 Coaching Calls hands-on with Shawn
(B) Option: Group Coaching Calls: Experience connection, friendship, reassurance, and accountability in a safe environment
Ask a Coach
Inside your membership portal, you have an opportunity to ask questions at any time. Get written replies from a coach within 48 hours to help you with your recovery in between coaching calls.
Private Community
Inside the all-in-one system you’ll get lifetime access to the private community full of like minded men on the same journey as you. You can look forward to inspirational posts encouraging comments and opportunities to find accountability partners.
Private and Encrypted community (Mobile and Desktop)
Space for encouragement, friendship and accountability
The Course
Combining the Bible with Psychology, Shawn will walk you step-by-step through the faith-based porn recovery process to help you get from point A to point B.
The Video Course Content
Module 1: Getting Started Right: Helping Starting the course with the right heart and expectations
Module 2: Living a Life On Principle: Learn how to create a mission and vision, take ownership, develop self-control, become obedient and grow in your consistency
Module 3: Developing Self Awareness: The opposite of addiction is not sobriety, it’s connection. Learn how to connect to God, yourself and those around you as you become aware and vulnerable and learn the foundational skill of journalling
Module 4: Biblical Foundations: Getting the right foundation is key. That’s why we help you build it on the truth of God and the gospels of Jesus Christ. Learn about his truth, spiritual health, confession and repentance and spiritual warfare.
Module 5: Your Present Struggles: Having language for your struggles is so important. That’s why learning about your brain, your triggers and the conflicting forces in your life makes this module such an important one.
Module 6: Understanding Your Past: Being able to understand where your struggles started is crucial to healing. That’s why I want to walk you through how to name the pain, dismantle the shame and powers it holds and move into writing your new story.
Module 7: Removing What’s In The Way: Our lives are so much more than just physical… we are spiritual beings, and because of this, we need to dig into the spiritual side of healing and look at our beliefs, attachments and areas of unforgiveness to be able to truly heal our hearts
Module 8: Living a Healthy Life: Freedom from porn is amazing… And I want to help you live it out by developing a healthy lifestyle that encouraged greater freedom, joy and integrity
WHAT TO EXPECT:
Inside Secret Habit Online Course Content
Thousands of hours of work from porn addiction expert boiled down into one place
1: Getting Started Right
Helping Starting the course with the right heart and expectations
2: Living a Life On Principle
Learn how to create a mission and vision, take ownership, develop self-control, become obedient and grow in your consistency
3: Developing Self Awareness
The opposite of addiction is not sobriety, it’s connection. Learn how to connect to God, yourself and those around you as you become aware and vulnerable and learn the foundational skill of journalling
4: Biblical Foundations
Getting the right foundation is key. That’s why we help you build it on the truth of God and the gospels of Jesus Christ. Learn about his truth, spiritual health, confession and repentance and spiritual warfare.
5. Your Present Struggles
Having language for your struggles is so important. That’s why learning about your brain, your triggers and the conflicting forces in your life makes this module such an important one.
6. Understanding Your Past
Being able to understand where your struggles started is crucial to healing. That’s why I want to walk you through how to name the pain, dismantle the shame and powers it holds and move into writing your new story.
And there’s even more that I have for you..
7. Removing What’s In The Way
Our lives are so much more than just physical… we are spiritual beings, and because of this, we need to dig into the spiritual side of healing and look at our beliefs, attachments and areas of unforgivness to be able to truly heal our hearts
8. Living a Healthy Life
Freedom from porn is amazing… And I want to help you live it out by developing a healthy lifestyle that encouraged greater freedom, joy and integrity
Client Testimonies
Check out what our clients are saying about working with us
“I feel I’m the healthiest person I’ve ever been. And I’m really really enjoying life. Shawn is always so supportive and helpful and caring, even when I felt like I messed up big time, it was usually another story uncovered and more healing that happened. So much compassion and grace, but also challenging where appropriate.I turn 30 in a few months. I’m so excited about life. I’m not in bondage to porn anymore. I can be open and honest with people. I have confidence in who I am and who I am becoming.”
~Seth
“Through deep healing sessions, I have grown to be more aware of my pain. I have also learned to be curious about my story. This has also made me a more compassionate husband, father, son, brother, and man”
“Now that I am on the other side, life has never been so vibrant, colourful, fun, meaningful and godly. This mentoring was the best choice I have ever made“
You can become confident, free and healthy too!
More client testimonies
Since beginning Secret Habit in January 2022, by the grace of God, I have not actively sought out pornography and I have seen an increase in trust within my marriage. My wife and I are enjoying the peace of this sustained sobriety and we are also learning to have deeper conversations around our own sexuality. ~ Ryan
A note from Shawn
After struggling for 14 years with porn, I finally found someone who was talking about this idea of introspection and holistic healing. This changed my life forever. Once I began looking at the root issues in my life, I was shocked and how much power they had over me. Once I worked through my deeper struggles, I realized that I was experiencing greater freedom than ever before and I was so excited! Sadly, I also realized that many people were completely unaware of this idea and how to actually do it… So this is what drives us and. the work we do with Secret Habit, may it bless you as it has blessed us
Are you ready to stop watching porn?
You don’t have to walk this journey alone
As you grow, so grows the rest of your life
Your spouse and loved ones once again regain confidence in your leadership
Free to engage in the world around you
Advancing as healthy fulfilled followers of Jesus Christ