Say Goodbye To Porn Addiction

Real guys, Real problems, Real solutions. We Help Christian Men Find Freedom From Porn
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I can’t stop watching porn… What do I do?

We help Christian men reach their potential without the bondage of pornography. We do that by providing a complete system with flexible and customizable tools to achieve 3 things:

Confident

Re-establish your confidence within you personal relationships and within yourself

Freedom

Maintain sobriety free from the footholds of porn addiction

Healthy

Discover your complete wholeness in the eyes of the Lord

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Does it feel impossible to stop watching porn?

Most men have a hard time finding the help they need. 

Problem #1 :  Neglecting the ROOT issue

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Behaviour Modification masks the real reasons of your porn addiction

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White knuckling leads men back to the binge-purge cycle 

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“An ounce of kindness to your story will do more than any amount of willpower ever could” ~ Jay Stringer

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“Having someone who has walked the walk is the element missing in most recovery circles” 

Problem #2 : Wasting time and money on recovery that doesn’t help

Many Pastors, Church Leaders, Counsellors and Therapists are ill equipped to help you recover from porn addiction

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Lost hope that freedom is ever possible

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Self condemnation thinking: “if I just tried harder I would be free”

I know how hard it can be but if I can do it so can you

Through my 14 years of porn addiction and 5 years of freedom I am committed to bringing you the best of what I have learned on this recovery journey

Benefits of Quitting porn

How to stop watching porn? Compassion and Curiosity

God is the creator of our bodies, minds and spirits. This means they ALL matter and all work together

Solution #1 :
Compassion and Curiosity

Jesus modeled what it means to show compassion and ask great questions. When we offer these to ourselves and the things that trigger us, we are able to see whats truly driving our addiction   

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Grace-driven rather than Fear-driven

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Pinpoint and handle the real problem

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Develop confidence

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Invite Jesus into your pain

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You have a Story Too!

We have to become compassionate and curious listeners of our stories, thoughts, feelings and deep down beliefs. 

Solution #2 :
Work with a Porn Addiction Expert

Following the lead of someone who has found freedom from porn addiction and dedicated their life to offering proven guidance will help you pinpoint your blind spots and guide you from point A to point B

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Personal Experience/ Testimony

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Focused Expertise

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Situational Understanding and Guidance

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Biblically grounded recovery system 

Meet your Coach

Hey, I’m Shawn! I have had the privilege of coaching men to freedom from pornography since 2018. Along the way, I have learned the best and most cutting-edge approaches that really work, and I’m happy to say that my clients can be a testimony to that! I love connecting the truth of my faith and the power of science for maximum impact. All of the work I do is backed by my own 14-year addiction to porn and even more, my recovery and freedom since 2017. 

Shawn Bonneteau

Co-Founder, Coach and Podcast Host, Secret Habit Life Coaching

Mathew Testimony of Healing

Mathew Thomas 5 star reviews for Secret Habit
Things shifted when I said: Shawn I know we wanted to talk about ministry, but I need help. That took a lot of courage to say, to admit and to confess. As a pastor I felt a lot of hypocrisy… I was worried that the barrier of legalism would be a part of any coaching… But it was so good to find out how healing, supportive and restorative the process with Shawn really was

Freedom Plan: 

Freedom begins with the decision to get the help you need

1. JOIN THE COMMUNITY

Safe place for Christian men to heal from porn addiction

2. ENROLL IN COACHING

Choose between 1 on 1 or group coaching with Shawn

3. Live confident, healthy & free

Reach your potential without the bondage of pornography

Can't Quit Porn Alone

Join our free community with a free personal navigator call included or directly enroll in 1 on 1  or group coaching

Resetting the way you think

Develop the necessary mindsets and skills that recovery requires so you can build a sturdy foundation

Understanding the why behind your present struggles

Pinpoint the deeper drivers behind your addiction so you can tackle the real problem

Connecting the dots to find answers from your past

Uproot painful formative memories so they can be understood, brought to the light, and released

Pinpoint whats holding you back and remove it for good

Learn how to name and overcome the spiritual and emotional strongholds that have been holding you back

Mind, body, spirit formation

Develop a new belief system, let go of what has entangled you and become free to think clearly and live pure

Live Confident, Healthy & Free

You are equip to be out in the world, free from pornography

Weekly Coaching

Weekly Coaching Calls

Full access to coaching calls on Tuesdays and Saturdays. Each week you get a chance to raise your hand and get coached LIVE by Shawn. Get ready to learn, grow and heal by getting coached and watching other men get coached.

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Spotlight Saturdays: hands-on live coaching with Shawn

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Community Tuesdays: Experience connection, friendship, reassurance, and accountability in a safe environment

Ask a Coach

Inside your membership portal, you have an opportunity to ask questions at any time. Get written replies from a coach within 48 hours to help you with your recovery in between coaching calls.

 

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Private Secret Habit Community

Private Community

Inside the all-in-one system you’ll get lifetime access to the private community full of like minded men on the same journey as you. You can look forward to inspirational posts encouraging comments and opportunities to find accountability partners.

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Private and Encrypted community (Mobile and Desktop)

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Space for encouragement, friendship and accountability

The Course

Combining the Bible with Psychology, Shawn will walk you step-by-step through the faith-based porn recovery process to help you get from point A to point B.

The Video Course Content

Module 1: Getting Started Right: Helping Starting the course with the right heart and expectations

Module 2: Living a Life On Principle: Learn how to create a mission and vision, take ownership, develop self-control, become obedient and grow in your consistency

Module 3: Developing Self Awareness: The opposite of addiction is not sobriety, it’s connection. Learn how to connect to God, yourself and those around you as you become aware and vulnerable and learn the foundational skill of journalling

Module 4: Biblical Foundations: Getting the right foundation is key. That’s why we help you build it on the truth of God and the gospels of Jesus Christ. Learn about his truth, spiritual health, confession and repentance and spiritual warfare.

Module 5: Your Present Struggles: Having language for your struggles is so important. That’s why learning about your brain, your triggers and the conflicting forces in your life makes this module such an important one.

Module 6: Understanding Your Past: Being able to understand where your struggles started is crucial to healing. That’s why I want to walk you through how to name the pain, dismantle the shame and powers it holds and move into writing your new story.

Module 7: Removing What’s In The Way: Our lives are so much more than just physical… we are spiritual beings, and because of this, we need to dig into the spiritual side of healing and look at our beliefs, attachments and areas of unforgiveness to be able to truly heal our hearts

Module 8: Living a Healthy Life: Freedom from porn is amazing… And I want to help you live it out by developing a healthy lifestyle that encouraged greater freedom, joy and integrity

WHAT TO EXPECT:
Inside Secret Habit Online Course Content

 

Thousands of hours of work from porn addiction expert boiled down into one place

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1: Getting Started Right

Helping Starting the course with the right heart and expectations

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2: Living a Life On Principle

Learn how to create a mission and vision, take ownership, develop self-control, become obedient and grow in your consistency

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3: Developing Self Awareness

The opposite of addiction is not sobriety, it’s connection. Learn how to connect to God, yourself and those around you as you become aware and vulnerable and learn the foundational skill of journalling

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4: Biblical Foundations

Getting the right foundation is key. That’s why we help you build it on the truth of God and the gospels of Jesus Christ. Learn about his truth, spiritual health, confession and repentance and spiritual warfare.

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5. Your Present Struggles

Having language for your struggles is so important. That’s why learning about your brain, your triggers and the conflicting forces in your life makes this module such an important one.

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6. Understanding Your Past

Being able to understand where your struggles started is crucial to healing. That’s why I want to walk you through how to name the pain, dismantle the shame and powers it holds and move into writing your new story.



And there’s even more that I have for you..

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7. Removing What’s In The Way

 Our lives are so much more than just physical… we are spiritual beings, and because of this, we need to dig into the spiritual side of healing and look at our beliefs, attachments and areas of unforgivness to be able to truly heal our hearts

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8. Living a Healthy Life

Freedom from porn is amazing… And I want to help you live it out by developing a healthy lifestyle that encouraged greater freedom, joy and integrity

Client Testimonies

Check out what our clients are saying about working with us

Seth 5 Star Review Secret Habit Porn Addiction Recovery

I feel I’m the healthiest person I’ve ever been. And I’m really really enjoying life. Shawn is always so supportive and helpful and caring, even when I felt like I messed up big time, it was usually another story uncovered and more healing that happened. So much compassion and grace, but also challenging where appropriate.I turn 30 in a few months. I’m so excited about life. I’m not in bondage to porn anymore. I can be open and honest with people. I have confidence in who I am and who I am becoming.”

~Seth

Through deep healing sessions, I have grown to be more aware of my pain. I have also learned to be curious about my story. This has also made me a more compassionate husband, father, son, brother, and man” 

Jacob Downie

Hiking Guide

“Now that I am on the other side, life has never been so vibrant, colourful, fun, meaningful and godly. This mentoring was the best choice I have ever made“

Robinson Adames

School Counsellor

You can become confident, free and healthy too!

More client testimonies

Since beginning Secret Habit in January 2022, by the grace of God, I have not actively sought out pornography and I have seen an increase in trust within my marriage. My wife and I are enjoying the peace of this sustained sobriety and we are also learning to have deeper conversations around our own sexuality.      ~ Ryan

A note from Shawn

After struggling for 14 years with porn, I finally found someone who was talking about this idea of introspection and holistic healing. This changed my life forever. Once I began looking at the root issues in my life, I was shocked and how much power they had over me. Once I worked through my deeper struggles, I realized that I was experiencing greater freedom than ever before and I was so excited! Sadly, I also realized that many people were completely unaware of this idea and how to actually do it… So this is what drives us and. the work we do with Secret Habit, may it bless you as it has blessed us

Shawn Bonneteau

Co-Founder and Lead Coach, Secret Habit Life Coaching

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Are you ready to stop watching porn?

You don’t have to walk this journey alone

As you grow, so grows the rest of your life

Your spouse and loved ones once again regain confidence in your leadership

Free to engage in the world around you

Advancing as healthy fulfilled followers of Jesus Christ

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