What Your Porn Habits Might Be Telling You?
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👉 Your Next Step: Watch The Heart Hunger Masterclass
Your quiz results reveal a pattern that may be connected to your return to porn
Most men think they lack discipline.
And now you know, that's rarely the real problem.
Watch this masterclass before you do anything else
So you can better understand what to do with your hungry heart
You watched the video, now don't stop there
👉 Your Next Step: Book Your Personal Recovery Plan Session
We'll look at your situation, explore the patterns you're experiencing, and help you build a clear path forward
Your Personal Recovery Plan Session
Helping Men Get Clear and Confident in Recovery- ✔ 60-minute private Zoom strategy session
- ✔ Personalized recovery strategy
- ✔ Green Zone & Red Zone framework tailored to your story
- ✔ Personalized worksheet and action plan
- ✔ Practical next steps for your current season
- ✔ Clear direction and confidence moving forward
- ✔ No obligation for ongoing coaching
- ONE SESSION
- ONE CLEAR STRATEGY
- ONE INTENTIONAL STEP
5000+ men and couples have been impacted through Shawn Bonneteau's coaching and resources.
125+ five-star reviews
130+ podcast episodes
1000+ men coached
3000+ Coaching Sessions
8+ years coaching Christian men
Training & Certifications:
Inner Child Recovery Specialist
Eddie Capparucci, Ph.D., LPC, CSAS | Pure Life Academy | Inner Child Recovery Process for Sexual/Pornography Addictions™
Certified Mentor
Michael Leahy CPM, CPSAS, CSAM | BraveHearts | Launching Your Mentorship Ministry
Completed sexual-addiction mentoring training
Story-Informed Coaching Certification
Drew Boa, PSAP., MA | Husband Material Ministries
These trainings inform Shawn's coaching approach and the frameworks he uses when working with men in pornography recovery. Secret Habit provides coaching and educational support and does not provide psychotherapy, psychological diagnosis, or mental-health treatment.
*Imagine facing each day with confidence. Working smart, not just hard. Experiencing breakthrough, not just hype.
Feeling stuck in recovery, even though you've tried everything?
Most men don't struggle because they lack information.
They struggle because they're overwhelmed, inconsistent, and unsure what they should actually focus on.
A 60-minute 1:1 coaching session designed to help you understand your patterns, clarify what you want to change, and build a practical recovery strategy that fits your life, faith, and current season.
Together, we'll explore:
- Your recurring behavioral patterns
- Situations that tend to pull you into your Red Zone
- Emotional and relational needs connected to those patterns
- Your Green Zone and what helps you respond differently
- Practical habits and strategies that fit your life
- The next steps you want to take
My goal isn't to give you more information. It's to help you stop guessing.
You'll leave with greater clarity, confidence, and a practical strategy that feels realistic and sustainable.
What's yours to keep?
✔ Personalized recovery strategy
✔ Greater awareness of your patterns
✔ Clear Red Zone / Green Zone plan
✔ Practical action plan
✔ Worksheet you can continue using
✔ Clear next steps
Money Back Guarantee:
Your recovery deserves honesty and integrity. I deeply respect the time, energy, and money you're investing. If I don't deliver the clarity and strategy I promise, I don't believe you should have to pay for it.
This is for you if,
✔ You've tried multiple recovery approaches but still feel stuck
✔ You're overwhelmed by information and unsure what actually matters
✔ You know what to do but struggle to apply it consistently
✔ You want clarity instead of chaos
✔ You want to recover intentionally instead of reactively
✔ You desire to be motivated but struggle to stay consistent
Recovery doesn't have to feel chaotic.
Sometimes the biggest breakthrough isn't trying harder. It's finally knowing what to focus on.
What happens after the session?
For many men, the Personal Recovery Plan is all they need to gain clarity and start moving forward with confidence.
Others decide they'd like ongoing coaching to help implement their strategy, build consistency, and learn to navigating new situations.
At the end of our session, we'll discuss what makes the most sense for your situation. However, there is absolutely no obligation to continue coaching.
7 Day Money-Back Guarantee
I'm confident in the value of your Personal Recovery Plan.
If you attend your session, follow your personalized recovery plan, and don't believe you've received the clarity and strategy needed to make meaningful progress, I'll refund your investment.
* important: coaching with Shawn is not therapy/psychological treatment
Your recovery deserves honesty and integrity. I deeply respect the time, energy, and money you're investing. If I don't deliver the clarity and strategy I promise, I don't believe you should have to pay for it.
What Others Are Saying About Shawn:
*What if you had the awareness to REALLY know why you're tempted, and the confidence to know what to do about it?
Your Personal Recovery Plan Session
Helping Men Get Clear and Confident in Recovery- ✔ 60-minute private Zoom strategy session
- ✔ Personalized recovery strategy
- ✔ Green Zone & Red Zone framework tailored to your story
- ✔ Personalized worksheet and action plan
- ✔ Practical next steps for your current season
- ✔ Clear direction and confidence moving forward
- ✔ No obligation for ongoing coaching
- ONE SESSION
- ONE CLEAR STRATEGY
- ONE INTENTIONAL STEP
Not Ready To Book Yet? no problem
👉 Listen to the "personal recovery plan" series on the Secret Habit podcast
This 7 episode series will dive into each step covered in the session. Its a great way to consider where you may be lacking clarity. And an even better way to consider how I can help.
Your Questions Answered
Why should I book a Personal Recovery Plan after taking the Clarity Quiz?
The Clarity Quiz is designed to give you a starting point. It can help you recognize some of the patterns and needs that may be connected to your pornography habits.
But awareness is only the first step.
During your Personal Recovery Plan, we'll take what you discovered in the quiz and apply it to your actual life. We'll look at your habits, situations, routines, relationships, and the moments when pornography becomes more difficult to resist.
Then we'll turn that awareness into a practical recovery strategy.
The quiz gives you clarity. The Personal Recovery Plan helps you turn that clarity into action.
Instead of spending our time talking primarily about pornography, we're going to slow everything down and understand the true issue beneath your struggle. Together, we'll make sense of your patterns, your emotions, your thoughts, and ultimately what your heart has been hungry for all along. One of the things I say often is that temptation is a prophet. It doesn't just show you what you're tempted by it reveals something about what's happening in your heart. Once you learn how to read those clues, your struggle begins to make a whole lot more sense.
We'll identify what tends to pull you into your Red Zone, what your heart is actually longing for in those moments, and then build a Green Zone that's designed specifically around your story not someone else's recovery plan. Yours. Guys are natural problem-solvers. When we know what the problem is and we know what to do about it, we're capable of making incredible progress. That's why my goal isn't simply to help you stop watching porn. My goal is to help you understand your heart so clearly that you know what to work on and how to work on it.
By the end of our session, I want you to leave thinking, "For the first time... this actually makes sense." Because in my experience, clarity creates confidence, and confidence is one of the greatest gifts you can have on your recovery journey.
Who is the Personal Recovery Plan for?
The Personal Recovery Plan is for Christian men who are struggling to quit pornography and feel stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure what to focus on next.
It may be especially helpful if:
- You've tried to quit pornography multiple times.
- You know what you should do but struggle to follow through.
- You keep repeating the same patterns.
- You want a recovery plan built around your actual life.
- You've tried accountability, filters, books, podcasts, or other resources but still feel stuck.
- You want personalized porn recovery coaching rather than more general information.
- You want your recovery to be consistent with your Christian faith.
You don't need to have everything figured out before the session. That's what the coaching process is for.
What happens during a Personal Recovery Plan?
We'll spend 60 minutes looking at your recovery from a practical, personalized perspective.
We'll explore:
- Your current pornography habits and patterns
- Situations that tend to increase urges
- Your Red Zone and the early signs that you're moving toward an unhealthy response
- The emotional, relational, and practical needs connected to your patterns
- Your current routines, relationships, and support systems
- What helps you stay in your Green Zone
- Practical strategies you can use in everyday life
Then we'll put those pieces together into a personalized recovery plan.
The goal isn't to give you more information. It's to help you know what to focus on, what to do, and how to put it into practice.
What will I leave with?
You'll leave with a personalized recovery strategy that you can continue using after the session.
Depending on your situation, this may include:
- A personalized Red Zone plan
- A practical Green Zone strategy
- A clearer understanding of your recurring patterns
- Specific strategies for handling temptation
- Practical habits and routines to strengthen your recovery
- A personalized worksheet
- Clear next steps for your current season
- Greater confidence about what to work on next
The goal is not to solve every aspect of your life in one session.
The goal is to help you leave with clarity, direction, and a plan you can actually use.
How is a Personal Recovery Plan different from therapy or accountability?
Coaching, therapy, and accountability can all play valuable roles in someone's recovery, but they serve different purposes.
The Personal Recovery Plan is a coaching session focused on education, self-awareness, practical strategy, and behavior change.
It is not psychotherapy, psychological diagnosis, or mental-health treatment, and it is not intended to replace therapy or other professional care.
If you're dealing with mental-health concerns, trauma, or another issue that requires clinical treatment, you should seek help from an appropriately qualified mental-health professional.
The purpose of Shawn's coaching is to help you understand your habits, identify practical patterns, develop a recovery strategy, and put that strategy into action.
Why is the Personal Recovery Plan paid?
There are many free resources available to help men quit pornography, including the Secret Habit podcast, articles, videos, and guides.
The Personal Recovery Plan is different because it is personalized coaching.
Before your session, Shawn reviews your information so the time can be focused on your situation rather than general education.
During the session, you'll work together to create your Red Zone, build your Green Zone, identify the patterns that are most relevant to your recovery, and develop practical next steps.
You're not paying for another video or another collection of information.
You're paying for personalized coaching and a recovery strategy built around your situation.
Do I have to continue coaching afterward?
No.
The Personal Recovery Plan is designed to stand on its own.
Some men use the session to get clear on what they need to work on and then continue implementing their plan independently.
Others decide that ongoing coaching would be helpful as they work on consistency, apply their strategy, and navigate new situations.
There is no obligation to continue.
The goal of the Personal Recovery Plan is to give you something useful whether you have one coaching session with Shawn or decide to continue working together.
What if I've already tried everything to quit porn?
You're not alone.
Many Christian men have tried accountability, pornography blockers, prayer, fasting, books, podcasts, support groups, and other approaches and still find themselves repeating the same habits.
That doesn't necessarily mean those tools don't work.
Sometimes the bigger issue is that you don't have a clear strategy for your particular patterns and circumstances.
That's what the Personal Recovery Plan is designed to address.
Instead of simply adding another tool to your collection, we'll look at what's actually happening in your recovery, identify the patterns that matter most, and build a practical plan for what you can do differently.
You don't need another hundred things to try.
You may simply need greater clarity about what to work on next.
What if I don't know why I keep going back to porn?
That's completely okay.
You don't need to understand everything about your pornography habits before starting coaching.
During the session, we'll explore the situations, thoughts, emotions, routines, relationships, and patterns that tend to surround your behavior.
Using the Secret Habit framework, you'll learn to recognize the patterns that often come before pornography use and identify healthier ways to respond.
The goal isn't to diagnose you or find a single hidden cause.
It's to help you become more aware of what is happening in your own life so you can make more intentional choices.
Do I need to prepare before my session?
Not much.
After booking, you'll complete a short intake form so Shawn can learn more about your situation before the call.
You don't need to have the answers figured out.
You don't need to know exactly why you've struggled.
And you don't need to prepare a perfect explanation of your story.
Simply come ready to be honest, reflect on your experiences, and work together on a practical recovery strategy.
One thing that can enhance our conversation is if you can listen to the 2 podcasts in the booking confirmation email. These will give you a clear lay of the land for where we will take things in our session together.
Is the Personal Recovery Plan confidential?
Your privacy matters.
The information you provide for your coaching session is treated with care and respect and is used to provide your coaching experience.
Shawn's coaching is not a clinical therapy service, and the Personal Recovery Plan is not a medical or psychological assessment.
Before booking, please review the applicable privacy policy and coaching terms so you understand how your information is handled.
What if I'm embarrassed to talk about my compulsive porn use?
That's completely understandable.
Pornography can be difficult to talk about, especially when you've kept it private for years.
Shawn has coached Christian men from many different backgrounds and understands how difficult it can be to talk honestly about something you're ashamed of.
You don't need to impress him or have the right answers.
The coaching session is designed to give you a respectful environment where you can talk honestly about your habits and work on practical next steps without being shamed.
You can simply start where you are.
Can I book another coaching session afterward?
Absolutely.
Some men find that one Personal Recovery Plan gives them the clarity and strategy they need to continue on their own.
Others want additional 1-on-1 porn recovery coaching as they put their plan into practice.
Follow-up coaching can be useful when you encounter new challenges, want help staying consistent, or need to adjust your strategy as your circumstances change.
There's no requirement to continue. You can choose the level of coaching and support that makes sense for you.
How does Secret Habit help Christian men quit pornography?
Secret Habit combines porn recovery coaching, practical behavior-change strategies, Christian faith, and personalized support.
The focus isn't simply on trying harder.
It's on helping you understand your patterns, recognize what tends to pull you toward pornography, develop practical strategies for those situations, and build a life that is increasingly aligned with your values and faith.
The Secret Habit framework includes the Red Zone, Green Zone, Heart Hunger, and Confidence Framework, giving you practical ways to understand your recovery and take intentional action.
Is Secret Habit therapy?
No.
Secret Habit provides coaching, education, and practical recovery support not psychotherapy or psychological treatment.
Shawn works with Christian men to help them understand their pornography habits, develop personalized recovery strategies, and build practical skills for making lasting behavioral changes.
If you need diagnosis, psychotherapy, trauma treatment, or other clinical mental-health care, Secret Habit encourages you to work with an appropriately qualified professional.