Services:
Find The Right Coaching For You
Explore your options, from a focused Personal Recovery Plan Session to ongoing 1:1 Coaching with Shawn. Find the level of support that fits your needs
Personal Recovery Plan
STRATEGY SESSION · CLARITY & DIRECTION- 60-minute private session with Shawn
- Identify your triggers and recurring patterns
- Uncover the heart hunger behind your habits
- Get clear on what's really driving the problem
- Build a strategy that addresses the root issue
- Leave with a practical action plan
Core 1:1 Coaching
ONGOING COACHING · GUIDANCE & GROWTH- Weekly 45-minute private coaching calls
- Guided 12-lesson recovery cirriculum
- Personal Recovery Plan
- Digital workbook and guided exercises
- Inner Child Healing video course
- Email support between sessions
- Discounted first call to see if we're a good fit
Elite 1:1 Coaching
PREMIUM COACHING · DEEPER SUPPORT & ACCESS- Weekly 60-minute private coaching calls
- Direct WhatsApp voice coaching and support between sessions
- Guided 12-lesson recovery cirriculum
- Digital workbook and guided exercises
- Personal Recovery Plan
- Lifetime access: Inner Child Healing video course
- Greater hands on coaching experience
- Discounted first call to see if we're a good fit
7 Day Money-Back Guarantee
I'm confident in the value of the coaching I provide, and I want you to feel confident in your decision to invest
If you attend your session, engage with the insights and guidance provided, and dont walk away with the clarity and practical strategy you came for, I'll refund your investment
* Important: Secret Habit provides coaching and educational support. Coaching with Shawn is not psychotherapy, psychological counselling, psychological diagnosis, or mental-health treatment.
Your recovery deserves honesty and integrity. I respect the time, effort, and money you're putting into this work. If I don't deliver the clarity and strategy I've promised, you shouldn't have to pay for it.
Choose the Support That Fits Your Need
Personal Recovery Plan Session
In this one-time, 60 minute session, you'll work with Shawn to identify your recurring patterns, understanding what's driving them, and build a practical recovery plan tailored to you
Best for: men whon want clarity on the real problem and a clear next step before commiting to on going coaching
Core 1:1 Coaching
You've tried to stop. You've made promises to yourself. But something keeps pulling you back into the same patterns.
Core gives you a structured recovery process and ongoing coaching with Shawn to help you understand whats driving your patterns, recognize the blind spots in your recovery, and put the right work into practise. Each week, you'll have dedicated time to process what's happening in your recovery and make real lasting progress
Best for: Men who are tired of trying to figure this out alone, and are ready to commit to a clearer, more intentional recovery process
Elite 1:1 Coaching:
Maybe your marriage is on the line. Maybe you're facing a personal crisis, carrying this struggle without enough suport, or you're realizing that your current approach is not enough. You know something needs to change, and you need more than a weekly call to help you work through it.
Elite gives you a higher level of personal support, with longer coaching sessiojns and direct Whatsapp voice access to Shawn between calls. You'll have more time to work through difficult challenges and more support as you put your recovery into practice.
Best for: Men who have an urgent life challenge and need a more hands-on level of coaching, support, and accountability to get through to the other side.
Support That Goes Beyond Theory
Understand What's Really Driving Your Struggle
I'll help you make sense of why you feel tempted to watch porn
Build a Strategy for Real Change
We'll build a practical recovery strategy tailored for you
Navigate Your Inner World
Instead of being overwhelmed by emotions, you'll learn to respond with greater clarity and intention
Understand Your Story
Let's explore how your past experiences may still shape your beliefs, heart hungers, and behaviours
Bring Your Faith Into the Work
We'll connect the work to your identity in Christ, helping you grow in confidence as a beloved son of God.
Get Guidance From Someone Who Understands
I've been free from porn and masturbation since 2017, led over 3000 coaching session, and am a certified Inner Child Recovery Specialist and Sexual Addiction Mentor. I bring personal experience, years of coaching, and specialized training to help you find clarity and a way forward.
Have a Question Before Getting Started?
You dont have to know exactly what you need before reaching out. If you're unsure which coaching option is right for you, have questions about the process, or have something else in mind, I'd be glad to hear from you
Send me a message below, and I'll personally get back to you
Shawn Bonneteau
What Support Can Feel Like
“There is freedom in understanding why we fall into temptation. Every aspect of my life is stronger because of Secret Habit.”
Joe Dipenta
NHL Cup Champion, Busines Owner
“Shawn was really great to work with and the course he offers has so many good tools for recovery that i found super helpful. The road to recovery is easier if Shawn is coaching you.”
Jayce
Client
“As a pastor I felt a lot of hypocrisy and I was worried that the recovery process would be legalistic. However, it was so good to find out how healing, supportive and restorative the recovery process is with Shawn.”
Matthew Thomas
Pastor
“Now that I am on the other side, life has never been so vibrant, colourful, fun, meaningful and godly. This mentoring was the best choice I have ever made“
Robinson Adames
School Counselor
Frequently Asked Questions
Clear answers to help you take your next step with confidence
Which coaching option is right for me?
Choose the Personal Recovery Plan Session if you want a one-time conversation and a clear starting plan. Core offers weekly calls and a structured curriculum; Elite adds longer calls and WhatsApp voice support.
What happens during a Personal Recovery Plan Session?
You’ll spend 60 minutes with Shawn exploring your habits, triggers, and recurring patterns. Together, you’ll build a personal Red Zone / Green Zone plan and identify practical next steps. The call is fast paced and action packed, focused on getting rid of blind spots and getting you onto a clear path
What are the weekly coaching calls like?
My coaching style is very empathy driven and Christ centric. That means that theres an important balance of love and strength that allows guys to heal no matter if they're killing it or struggling along the way.
Each session has a strategic structure. First, the client fills out a pre sessions reflection so I can start the call with what to celebrate and what to ask further about. Second, I share some shifts in paradigm that would be helpful for the week ahead given any challenges. Thirdly, we dive itno the lesson at hand as we follow the guided workbook and consider the clients greatest need.
Will my coaching conversations be private?
One-on-one calls are private conversations with Shawn. They are confidential and your information will not be shared with anyone else.
Do I need to be a Christian to work with Shawn?
Secret Habit approaches recovery through practical strategies, emotional awareness, and Christian faith. You can ask Shawn how faith is incorporated and discuss your comfort level before choosing a service.
I have worked with men of other religions, athiests and agnostics.
I do believe my approach can help anyone at some level, but it will be most congruent with someone of the Christian faith.
What's the difference between Coaching and Therapy?
I'm a coach, not a therapist, and I want to be clear about what that means
My work focuses on helping you understand the patterns behind your struggle with porn, identify what needs to change, and develop a practical path forward. I have specialized training in sexual struggles and inner child recovery, which informs the way I approach this work.
Therapy can offer a different kind of support. Many therapists have extensive education and specialized training in areas such as. trauma recovery, attachment theory, and mental health. These approaches can be deeply valuable, and I have great respect for what therapists do.
Where coaching can be especially helpful is in it's focus on helping you move from where you are now toward where you want to be. Rather than getting lost in info or theory, we'll focus on understanding what's keeping you stuck and putting that understanding into practise in your everyday life
Coaching and therapy can compliment each other, but they aren't the same. My role is to help you find clarity, build a practical recovery strategy, and take meaningful steps toward lasting change.
Do you take health insurance?
Because im a coach and not a therapist, I cannot process your medical or health nsurance and help you cover the costs of my coaching
I do offer sholarships from time to time and would love to send you the form if you contact me letting me know you need some support
How do I get started?
Go ahead and book a Personal Recovery Plan Session or a First Core or Elite Coaching call (discounted to make sure we're a good fit beyond the first call)
If you need help deciding, you can contact me and I'll personally respond to help you get started