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You & Your Loved One Deserve Better than Porn

We Provide Safe Place to Heal for Young Marriages Affected by Porn

Online Mentoring for Men

Helping men find lasting freedom from porn so they can restore the intimacy they have always wanted with their wife

Online Mentoring for Women

Providing support for women affected by porn  so they can flourish in their sexuality, relationships and life

Online Group Mentoring

Community-based mentoring for men and women seeking lasting healing and freedom from pornography

Choose Real Relationships Over the Screen and Restore What Has Been Lost

Are you hiding because you have no one to talk to?

Studies show healing takes place in relationship and the opposite of addiction is not sobriety, it’s connection.

You Can Talk to Us

We Know How to Help

Effective Relational Mentoring

Getting Started is Easy

Free Intro Call

Let’s take 30 min. to find out where you’re at and where we can take you

Book Appointment

Enroll in our mentorship program 

1st Session!

The beginning of your journey to freedom

About Your Mentors

Shawn & Helena Bonneteau Sexual Addiction Mentors

Shawn and Helena have a passion for those struggling with pornography and betrayal not by choice, but by their own stories of trial to triumph. With their desire to help young struggling marriages, they founded Secret Habit and got their Certification in Sexual Addiction Mentoring. Together, they struggled with porn for over 25 years and had Shawn’s addiction destroy everything they had in their first year of marriage. With this, Helena was left betrayed and to deal with unexpected broken trust and insecurities as a newlywed. After 8 months into the marriage, with the help of God and key mentors, Shawn and Helena were finally able to make the decision to choose healing over staying in the dark. After experiencing a taste of freedom for themselves, it became undeniable that they COULD NOT REMAIN SILENT ABOUT SHARING THIS GIFT. 

Testimonials

"I had tried to quit porn so many times, but I could only get so far on my own... I decided to work with Shawn because the method of recovery he uses actually works! I am now free for the longest I have ever been, and to have my life back is the greatest feeling in the world"

Tobias, Germany

"I was exposed to porn in my teens which lead me to becoming addicted and unable to quit on my own. When I met Helena, she was the most caring and amazing person I had ever met. I am so grateful for God who sent helpers to help point me towards the steps to true recovery."

Nony, Zimbabwe

“Shawn & Helena are so real, bold and courageous to be confronting this topic. Through their own addictions and healing from porn, they’ve learned how to transform their focus and become addicted to God’s call on their lives. I am sure God will use them abundantly to redeem those who are still in chains to pornography.”

Walid, Bierut

“I knew I was addicted to porn as I had tried to quit for 5 years without success. When I met Shawn, he was free for over a year and acted as a role model for me. This gave me hope that freedom was possible for me too. I am thankful to say that I am no longer addicted to porn! I don’t sexualize things like I used to, my emotions are more regulated, and my life is much more stable and enjoyable"

Thomas E, Vancouver

Our Expertise

Science Based Recovery

Women's Health

Marital Intimacy

Restoring Trust

Faith Based Healing

Men's Health

Sexual Integrity

Stress Management

Healthy Disciplines

Body Image, Insecurities

Sex Issues

Overcoming Shame

Mentorship Approach 

We approach healing with scientific, spiritual and physical methods to ensure the most effective form of recovery.

Mentors are becoming the best option in helping specific issues such as pornography and betrayal. Working with a Mentor is a lot like a mountain climber following a “sherpa guide” on a journey from the bottom to the peak. As sexual addiction “sherpas” we have walked the walk and understand the path better than anyone else. We know the pitfalls, the struggles, and the way to the top so you can be confident following our steps.

Contact Shawn or Helena

Helena: (604) 499- 3349

Shawn: (604) 880- 2764

sh@secrethabit.ca

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